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I lived in upstate New York for many years. I know from experience how winters can affect our mental health. As winter's chill settles in and daylight wanes, many find ourselves grappling with a range of emotions that can sway from coziness and contentment to feelings of isolation and melancholy. It is well known, that the colder months often bring about a unique set of challenges for emotional well-being affecting our mental health and balance, but fear not – with a mindful approach, we shall cultivate emotional balance and embrace the winter season with warmth and resilience.
Winter offers a unique opportunity to indulge in the Danish concept of "hygge" (pronounced hoo-ga), which encompasses a feeling of coziness and contentment. We can create a snug haven within your home by incorporating soft blankets, warm lighting, and comforting scents (I suggest lavender, my favorite). Engage in activities that bring joy, whether it's reading a book by the fireplace or woodstove, enjoying a cup of hot cocoa, or sharing a laughter-filled evening with loved ones. I am feeling the warmth already, just thinking about it! But read on.
As the world outside slows down, use this time to turn inward and focus on self-care. Establish a consistent routine that includes activities that nourish your body and mind. Some options to think about are a warm bath, meditation, or simply taking a few moments each day for deep breathing exercises, these rituals can help center your emotions and provide a sense of stability.
Despite the cold temperatures, spending time outdoors can have a profound impact on our emotional well-being. Don't forget to bundle up and take a brisk walk in a nearby park, breathe in the crisp winter air, and marvel at the serene beauty of a snowy landscape. Somehow, nature has a way of grounding us and offering a fresh perspective, even in the coldest of months.
Winter often brings a temptation to hibernate. Wait? We are not bears! So don't isolate and maintain your social connections because they are crucial for our emotional balance and mental health. Plan gatherings with friends or family, whether it's a potluck dinner (we can be creative, and choose a different culinary preference for each dinner party) , a game night, or a simple get-together. Nothing elaborate! Shared moments and laughter can uplift your spirits and provide a sense of belonging during the winter months.
The reduced daylight during winter can impact mood and energy levels affecting our mental health. Combat the winter blues by maximizing exposure to natural light during the day. Open curtains, take short outdoor breaks, and consider investing in light therapy lamps to mimic the effects of sunlight, which can positively influence mood and overall well-being.
Channeling your energy into creative pursuits can be a powerful way to find emotional balance. Whether it's painting, writing, crafting, or playing a musical instrument, expressing yourself through art can be therapeutic and provide an outlet for emotions. Engage in activities that bring you joy and allow your creativity to flourish.
Mindfulness practices, such as meditation and gratitude journaling, can help anchor your thoughts and cultivate a positive mindset. Take a few moments each day to reflect on the things you're grateful for, whether it's the warmth of a cup of tea or the beauty of a winter sunset. Don't underestimate the simple things in life that can contribute to our mental health. Get into the habit of writing 5 things you are gratefully for. These small moments of mindfulness can have a profound impact on your emotional well-being.
All that sounds great but if the winter months bring about persistent feelings of sadness or anxiety, don't hesitate to seek professional support. Therapists and counselors are equipped to help navigate the complexities of emotions, providing guidance and support tailored to your individual needs. Mental health is a serious issue!
Now cozy up, reflect on what you've read, start applying it to your life and share this blog with a friend!
Stay warm my friend!
PS: Thank you for the beautiful picture bestowed to me by L. Butchart (British Columbia, Canada).
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I am grateful to begin new traditions at this time of year in the cold season. Christmas , which is just truly made up, was a drudging time and a self pity time of the year…. with blended family, drug addiction and mental unwellness etc… I will pause to not follow those cookie crumbs of this wellknown sad story….
So now, I have a renewed spirit for this time of year, I put up lights and a tree for the first time in a while not for others, but for me…. To enjoy the twinkle, to enjoy the shapes and designs, to be playful, to be cozy…. And if others reap the joy too, all the better …. And of course they will because they feel my renewed energy and peace around having a joyful spirit amidst the chaos and drama of this heartbreaking and beautiful life we are experiencing.
May you have peace and love in your heart today and trust this energy will come and go and in that way it is always there.